God's Relentless Love

"Love one another as I have loved you." This command to love has always felt simple and straight-forward to me. I hadn't really given much thought to the possible depth of the command, that is until I considered the great passion in which Jesus loves me.

A couple of Sunday's ago at church we sing, "Jesus lover of my soul, all-consuming fire is in your gaze." I felt stopped in my tracks by those words. Did I really believe what I was singing?

I wondered recently what that really looks like, what that really feels like. I can't even imagine someone having that much desire for me. I wondered how I would live differently if I really did live my life knowing the deeper passionate love of God for me.

The recovery of passion is intimately connected with astonishment. We are swept up by the overwhelming face of mystery. Self-consciousness evaporates in the presence of what Rudolph Otto called "mysterium tremendum." The transcendent God overtakes us and overcomes us. Such an experience may wash over our consciousness like a gentle tide saturating the mind and heart in a tranquil spirit of profound adoration. Awe, wonder, and amazement induce speechless humility. We have a brief glimpse of the God we never dreamed existed.    - Abba's Child - Brennan Manning

Recently I caught a brief glimpse of God's transcendence in a conversation with a friend over breakfast. In became clear to me later that when I chose to live out of my belovedness, when I believed that I am wanted, pursued and loved, it pushed away the lies for a moment. And in that moment as I talked with my friend, I was in touch with my true self, a loved child of God. What a wondrous, crazy thing!

I am in awe of God's relentless love: His pursuit of something deeper in my heart that one day may hopefully free me fully to love others as passionately as He loves me. All this despite the terror I feel when I allow myself to be vulnerable and loved deeply. May I keep turning back to Him and bending my knee to His healing hand knowing a better day is ahead.

The Impostor

Each of has has a false self or an impostor that we use to make ourselves into someone we are not. Brennan Manning wrote the following thoughts in Chapter 2, The Impostor, in his book, Abba's Child:

• The impostor prompts us to attach importance to what has no importance...
• The impostor is a liar.
• Our false self stubbornly blinds each of us to the light and the truth of our own emptiness and hollowness. We cannot acknowledge the darkness within.
• The impostor bears a distinct resemblance to alcohol for the alcoholic. He is cunning, baffling, and powerful. He is insidious. 
• ...God does not know anything about him (Thomas Merton)
• It is the nature of the false self to save us from knowing the truth about our real selves, from penetrating the deeper causes of our unhappiness, from seeing ourselves as we really are--vulnerable, afraid, terrified, and unable to let our real selves emerge. (James Masterson) 
• ...a life devoted to the shadow is a life of sin. I have sinned in my cowardly refusal--out of fear of rejection--to think, feel, act, respond, and live from my authentic self. (Thomas Merton)
• The impostor must be called out of hiding, accepted and embraced. He is an integral part of my total self. Whatever is denied cannot be healed.
• Peace lies in acceptance of truth. Any facet of the shadow self that we refuse to embrace becomes the enemy and forces us into defensive postures.
• Hatred of the impostor is actually self-hatred... self[hatred always results in some form of self-destructive behavior.
• [Must be taken], where unknowingly [the impostor] has longed to be--into the presence of Jesus. 

This leaves much to consider. We were made to live fully as a child of God, but we cannot escape the emergence of a false self. I wonder if we can't really see ourselves clearly until we are willing or able to see the impostor for who he really is, a liar. 

Trust

...when we wallow in shame, remorse, self-hatred,

and guilt over real or imagined failings in the past,

we  are betraying  our distrust in  the love  of God,

that we have not accepted the acceptance of Jesus

Christ, the total sufficiency of his redeeming work.

Preoccupation  with  our  past sins,  our  present

weaknesses,  our  character  defects,  gets  our

emotions churning in self-destructive ways, closes 

us  in  the mighty  citadel itself,  and  completely

preempts the presence of the compassionate God.

                                                     - Brennan Manning